THE ongoing credit crunch and cost of living crisis may pose a challenge for many this Valentine’s Day.
While extravagant gestures may be out of reach, that doesn’t mean the annual celebration of love has to feel any less special. There are plenty of thoughtful, creative, meaningful and romantic ways to make someone feel cherished – without breaking the bank.
With that in mind, Eastern Eye has put together a list of 20 affordable options that prove love doesn’t come with a hefty price tag.
Home-cooked meal: Instead of booking an expensive restaurant – especially when it’s overcrowded – prepare a romantic meal at home. Set the mood with candles, soft music, drinks, and a beautifully arranged table.
Movie night: Have an intimate movie night at home. Pick your favourite romantic films, grab some snacks, and cosy up under a blanket.
Top tracks: Make a personalised playlist filled with romantic songs. You can share it via Spotify, or go old-school by recording it on a cassette or CD for a nostalgic touch.
Love jar: Fill a decorated jar or box with handwritten love notes. Include memories, future hopes, romantic poems, or heartfelt expressions. You can also add photos for an extra personal touch.
Memory book: Create a scrapbook filled with special memories – old photographs, ticket stubs, letters, and other keepsakes. Add captions, short stories, and fun illustrations to make it extra meaningful.
Your story: Take it a step further by handwriting your love story in a scrapbook, covering key moments, milestones, and funny anecdotes. Include old photos, memorabilia, and simple drawings to bring it to life.
Day out: Take a trip down memory lane by visiting places that hold meaning for both of you, like where you first met or shared a special moment. Pack a picnic or revisit the café where you had your first date. You can also explore free venues like art galleries or museums.
Handwritten letter: A heartfelt handwritten letter carries more meaning in an age dominated by WhatsApp and social media. You can even write a series of letters sealed in envelopes with labels like Open when you miss me, Open when you need motivation, or Open when you’re feeling low.
Good deeds: Instead of exchanging gifts, spread love by volunteering together at a charity. Alternatively, leave anonymous Valentine’s cards in different places for strangers to find, adding a little joy to their day.
Time capsule: Create a time capsule together. Fill a box with handwritten notes, photos, trinkets, and other romantic mementos. Seal it and agree on a future anniversary to open it.
Chef Asma Khan calls for an end to macho kitchens and celebrates older women in professional cooking.
Advocates unionising hospitality and improving working conditions across the industry.
Explains founding the Second Daughters Foundation to support girls’ education in India.
Discusses the political role of food in promoting labour rights and dignity.
Redefining kitchens and leadership
In the latest episode of Shami’s Speakeasy, chef and campaigner Asma Khan joined host Shami Chakrabarti to discuss justice, feminism, race and the politics of food. Chakrabarti described Khan as “not so much a celebrity chef as a revolutionary chef.”
Khan highlighted her all-women team at Darjeeling Express, many of whom are grandmothers, calling it “a powerhouse.” Rejecting the macho culture of celebrity kitchens, she said the average age of women cooking in her kitchen is 50, demonstrating that older women are central to professional cooking.
Unionising hospitality and work-life challenges
Khan spoke candidly about labour conditions in hospitality and the impossibility of perfect work-life balance for shift workers and entrepreneurs. She called for restaurant workers to unionise, reflecting on exploitation during COVID and ongoing staffing pressures: “Without collective action, we can never get anywhere.”
She also shared her approach to parenting and entrepreneurship: “There is no word called ‘balance’ for some of us. The only way out is to forgive yourself and keep going.”
Second Daughters and food as a force for change
As a second daughter, Khan founded the Second Daughters Foundation, supporting girls’ education in India through school meals and practical assistance for those most likely to be kept at home.
Khan also described food as a political tool, using it to “shake the world gently” while emphasising labour, dignity and respect alongside ingredients.
Episode details
Shami’s Speakeasy: Asma Khan is available on all major podcast platforms from 15 October 2025. Additional resources and artwork inspired by the discussion will be shared in the Speakeasy Zine on the show’s website and to subscribers.
Asma Khan is the founder of Darjeeling Express, London, and an advocate for dignity in hospitality and women’s rights. Shami Chakrabarti is a human rights lawyer, legislator, and broadcaster who hosts Shami’s Speakeasy as a forum for honest conversations on values, ethics and social change.
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