'Thank You For Coming' review: Bhumi Pednekar shines in movie on female desire
The comedy takes on a subject that hasn't really been tackled before in a Bollywood film , like frank discussions on sex and unapologetic characters
By Anjali MehtaOct 19, 2023
ONE look at recent films and especially web serials coming out of India shows that sex onscreen has become less taboo in the country. That has led towards a wide array of subjects, not available before, being covered and this recently released film fully capitalises on that.
Kanika is a serial dater, who constantly looks for validation and is determined to not be alone like her single mother. After unsuccessful relationships, she admits to never having had an orgasm to friends, who have their own problems to deal with. After resigning herself that it won’t happen for her, she gets engaged to a seemingly safe man. But then before the marriage Kanika has a wild night, which results in her first orgasm, but she doesn’t know who it happened with and what follows is a ‘sexual whodunnit’.
The comedy takes on a subject that hasn’t really been tackled before in a Bollywood film. This includes frank discussions on sex, unapologetic characters, and scenarios new to commercial Hindi cinema. Although it tries to be an Indian answer to Sex And The City, the cultural surroundings give Thank You For Coming its own identity, with moments many women will relate to.
The fun feminist romp has strong performances, but very much belongs to lead star Bhumi Pednekar, who once again shows just why she is one of the most fearless actresses working in Indian cinema. Her strong screen presence largely drives the story.
What prevents the movie from reaching greater heights is an inexperienced male director, who doesn’t seem quite in tune with the female protagonists and a screenplay that doesn’t quite match up to its lofty ambitions. If there was one film that demanded an experienced female director and cleverer writing, it was this one.
That doesn’t take away from Thank You For Coming being a dramatically different effort, which could become a potential game-changer if others follow suit.
The actress defended her claim that acting demands more than desk jobs in a recent interview.
She said office workers can "chill out" during work hours, unlike film stars.
Fans and working professionals called her comments privileged and out of touch.
The backlash started after her appearance on Amazon Prime's Two Much with Kajol & Twinkle.
Critics pointed out the financial gap and support systems actors have compared to regular employees.
Kajol probably didn't expect this reaction when she sat down with Twinkle Khanna on Two Much. But her comments about actors working harder than people with 9-to-5 jobs have blown up, and not in a good way.
Fans slam Kajol after she says actors work harder than regular employees sparking online outrage Getty Images
The comments that started it all
Kajol was speaking out about her earlier comments on Two Much with Kajol & Twinkle on Amazon Prime, where she said actors work harder than most people. This time she was explaining why she thinks that.
She told The Hollywood Reporter India that her days are full of shoots, events, and very early flights. One day involved waking at 5 AM to catch a flight to Jaipur for a 3 PM event.
But it was her take on regular jobs that got people talking. She claimed desk workers don't need to be "100% present" and can take breaks, "chill out," and relax while working. She kept coming back to the unending scrutiny actors face like the feeling of always being watched or something as simple as how you cross your legs or who's snapping a picture in the background becomes a constant calculation. You have to be switched on, she insisted, all the time.
The internet, frankly, was having none of it. YouTube and Reddit exploded with responses. "For the kind of remuneration actors are paid, they shouldn't have a problem working 12 hours a day for 4 days a week," one user wrote. Another pointed out that films typically take 3-4 months to shoot, while regular jobs run year-round.
The responses got more pointed. "Vanity mein naps or massages bhi toh hum lete hain," a Reddit user commented, referencing the comfort of vanity vans. Someone else joked: "If you work poorly, you get fired. If you act poorly, you get a Filmfare award."
The bluntest response yet? "Respectfully, Kajol, shut up."
Nobody denies acting is demanding. Long hours, public pressure, and constant judgement are very real. But comparing it to regular employment ignores some major differences.
Most people work 12 months a year with two weeks' holiday if they're lucky. They don't have spot boys fetching drinks or vanity vans for rest breaks. One netizen nailed it: "A working parent's schedule is continuous, every single day, with no wrap-up party or off-season."
Online erupts as Kajol defends claim that acting demands more than everyday 9-to-5 workGetty Images
There's also the money. While her fee for a single film is probably more than most people earn in a year, she says that doesn’t make the work easy. Still, it does provide a comfort that regular employees don’t have. Kajol has not yet replied to the backlash.
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