COMMUNITIES should help the police by reporting suspicions related to forced marriage, a
campaigner has urged, as she revealed she felt UK politicians were failing victims.
Jasvinder Sanghera, the founder of Karma Nirvana which supports victim of honour-based
abuse, also warned more children would suffer because of the government’s failures.
Sanghera, who was disowned by her family after she refused to participate in a forced marriage, told Eastern Eye on Tuesday (9) that communities could help agencies, especially the police, by reporting any suspicions they had about forced marriages.
“It is very difficult to police, safeguard and investigate cases without the support of those aware of victims,” she said. “I understand it takes immense courage to report abuses as a third party, but you can anonymously.”
Sanghera, who recently announced that she was stepping down as head of Karma Nirvana
after 25 years, believes communities are sometimes aware of abuse and called on them to act.
“It’s time for communities and families to join us, as no religion or tradition supports abuse,” she said.
In an interview last weekend, Sanghera said that many professionals working with forced marriage victims still treated the crime as a cultural problem rather than a child safeguarding issue.
“The government has not done enough to raise awareness and mainstream the issue, so there remains a huge problem with professionals viewing forced marriage as a cultural issue rather than a crime,” Sanghera claimed. “Many aren’t even aware there is a law.”
In Britain, there have only been three successful convictions under the forced marriage legislation.
However, Sanghera argued it was “completely disproportionate” considering the thousands of forced marriage reports.
“Despite the prevalence of this crime, there is still a reluctance to investigate and prosecute,” she said. “Yet forced marriage is de facto rape because there is no consent, and in extreme cases, can lead to ‘honour’ killings.”
In 2017, Karma Nirvana confirmed it received almost 9,000 calls including more than 200
from children under 15, related to forced marriage.
Sunny Angel, 40, is a survivor of forced marriage. She told Eastern Eye on Tuesday that she agreed with Sanghera’s views on professionals viewing the crime as a cultural issue.
When she was forced into marriage as a 20 year-old, Angel asked the authorities for help but the police turned her away.
“The officer in charge said, ‘it’s your culture’,” she recalled. “Today we still have professionals with this mindset.”
Angel, who works closely with Karma Nirvana as a survivor ambassador, said she is doing her best to educate front-line staff.
“But with only a few convicted, something is clearly wrong with the system,” she said.
Aneeta Prem, the founder of Freedom charity, thinks although professionals do want to learn about the issues of so-called honour crime, they need to be trained better.
“There is a training issue. There needs to be investment in training and it needs to be mainstream and very professionally led,” Prem told Eastern Eye.
They include the refusal of spousal entry visas to the UK where there are signs that a marriage has been forced and helping public service professionals identify and support victims. Javid made the announcement after months of criticism against the Home Office, which has been accused of accepting visa applications from men who had forcibly married teenagers abroad.
In response to this, Prem praised the government’s latest actions to tackle the problem.
She is hopeful the latest proposals will make a difference to victims.
“These are small steps, but it is a positive move forward,” she said.
Noreen Riaz, a project coordinator from forced marriage charity Halo Project, told Eastern Eye she shared similar sentiments as Prem. She believes change is happening, but it is a slow process.
“The government has made the necessary legislative changes to tackle forced marriages in the UK,” Riaz said.
“However, I agree more needs to be done to ensure change in practice and in the culture that it is prevalent in.
“Victims of forced marriage are at greater risk of physical, emotional and sexual abuse. We need to ensure professionals and agencies are aware of these risks and have a better understanding and training in regard to the barriers faced by victims of forced marriages,”
A VERITABLE Indian who’s who, led by Mukesh Ambani’s wife and daughter, Nita Ambani and Isha Ambani, turned the British Museum’s inaugural Pink Ball last Saturday (18) into a magical night to remember.
The ball, which is intended to be a match for the more established Metropolitan Museum of Art’s gala in New York, has been inspired by the British Museum’s exhibition, Ancient India: living traditions, examining the links between Jainism, Hinduism and Buddhism.
The exhibition, which opened on May 22 and concluded on October 19, was put together with the help of the Jain, Hindu and Buddhist communities in the UK.
The exhibition’s curator, Dr Sushma Jansari, said the British Museum has strengthened its links both with India and with the British Indian community.
“I really hope in the future it draws more people from the subcontinent and also our diaspora community here in the UK to connect with the museum, to see what other things we can do to collaborate - whether it’s events, projects, more exhibitions,” she told Eastern Eye.
Jansari, who is from Leicester and is the first person of Asian origin to hold the post of curator South Asia in the department of Asia at the British Museum, added: “I hope this highlights the museum as a place where we can do things together.”
Adar Poonawalla and Karishma Choraria
Describing the atmosphere of the ball as “amazing”, Jansari said: “It was fun, it was positive, really exciting. I am not aware of any such balls in the museum’s history. It was visually stunning. My favourite, the hot pink (of the fabrics) in the exhibition, inspired the theme of the ball. The exhibition was open the whole evening during the ball, and guests were encouraged to go and visit, which lots did. It was lovely chatting to so many people. They were really positive about it. I was really blown away. Those who hadn’t previously had a connection with the museum were really surprised at what kind of thing the museum can put on. The key idea here is that we all live together, both in the ancient past and today. All of these different faiths are part of our shared cultural heritage here in the UK today.”
Jansari gave a personal tour of her exhibition to Nita Ambani, whose husband heads Reliance Industries in India and is said to be the country’s richest man with a fortune estimated by Forbes to be worth $101.9bn. She looks after the family’s charitable foundations.
“She enjoyed walking through the show,” said Jansari.
Meanwhile, Isha Ambani, 33, chair of the ball and “the driving force behind the Nita Mukesh Ambani Cultural Centre” in Mumbai, said: “This evening is a celebration of age-old creativity. In India, pink is the colour of warmth, welcome and joy. It evokes a spirit of openness and grace integral to our culture. My hope is that our evening will be a reflection of these values, bringing global communities closer, fostering deep mutual respect and understanding.”
She also had a message in the guide booklet given to all 800 guests: “It’s incredible to see the work being done by the British Museum in preserving and sharing the cultures of the world. With the museum’s inaugural Pink Ball, inspiration has come from the colours, light, and vibrancy of India, whose traditions, artistry, and cultural legacy continue to inspire the world. In today’s times, gatherings like this are more than celebrations – they are opportunities to foster cultural dialogue, build understanding, and create connections.”
The museum’s director, Dr Nicholas Cullinan, commented: “The British Museum Ball was intended to celebrate London – a city renowned for its arts, culture, creativity and style. Tonight’s event did just that by bringing together the actors, artists, collectors, creatives, designers and writers that make our city a cultural powerhouse. In doing so, we continued in the footsteps of the many cultural icons who have come to the British Museum over the past 275 years, from Mozart to Karl Marx, Oscar Wilde to Virginia Woolf.”
Jansari was especially pleased to meet Rishi Sunak, the former prime minister who had been the star speaker at the NDTV World Summit in Delhi at 6 pm only the previous day.
“I really wanted to say hello because as the first ever Indian origin prime minister, it was quite a big deal (meeting him),” she said.
Sunak’s wife, Akshata Murty, wore “a bold striped gown that blended modern glam with a traditional twist, while the maang tikka added an unexpected dash of desi sparkle”.
In a post on Instagram, Murty, a trustee at the V&A, commended the British Museum: “It was an extraordinary celebration of culture that highlighted how vital museums are as guardians of our past, as well as champions of discovery. For both of us, as supporters of the arts and heritage, it was a reminder of why great institutions matter: each artefact, each story, each gallery opens doors to new possibilities. Here’s to museums around the world leading us forward.”
Fashion experts noted that “Nita and Isha Ambani’s ensembles were a testament to heritage woven into cloth. Nita dazzled in a handwoven beige-pink sari by Manish Malhotra, its zari and crystal-shard embroidery complemented by heirloom diamond and emerald jewellery. Isha wore a custom Abu Jani/ Sandeep Khosla blush pink satin sari, styled by Anaita Shroff Adajania, and hand-embroidered in pink zardosi, pearls, and crystals by over 35 artisans. Completed with jewellery from her mother’s collection, her look was a beautiful ode to Indian craftsmanship. She paired her outfit with massive emerald jewels from Nita Ambani’s collection.”
Among other guests, Anoushka Shankar – she was spotted with the broadcast journalist and TV presenter Anita Rani – played a sitar recital before the speeches. And after dinner, guests danced to songs from the rapper M.I.A.
Natasha Poonawalla, a regular at the Met Gala where she affects “look at me” outfits, was dressed more demurely for London. She came with her husband, Adar Poonawalla, CEO of the Serum Institute of India, the world’s biggest vaccine manufacturers.
The photographers had a busy time taking pictures of the likes of Aarti Lohia, an art collector whose husband, Amit Lohia, and father-in-law, Sri Prakash Lohia, run the Indorama Corporation.
Esha Arora came with husband Robin Arora, who ran B&M Stores with his older brothers, Simon and Bobby.
There was the fashion designer Saloni Lodhi, whose clothes have been worn by Michelle Obama, the Princess of Wales (during a trip to India in 2016) and Carey Mulligan.
The model Saffron Vadher, who has worked for Vogue India and such brands as Estée Lauder and Burberry, was a guest, as was Orhan (“Orry”) Awatramani, “who is famous on social media for …well, being famous”.
The actor Ray Panthaki was also a guest, as were Rajiv Nathwani, senior director of marketing for Netflix UK, Ireland & Israel; Suneil Setiya, an Oxford University physicist who started Quadrature Climate Foundation, a charity committed to fighting the climate emergency; Londoner Karishma Ruia (nee Choraria), whose husband Rewant Ruia is a director of the Essar group in India; Devisha Kumari Singh, a “millennial socialite, tastemaker and designer” (according to Harper’s Bazaar); and, representing the wider Asian community, the Canadian-British Imran Amed, founder and editor-in-chief of the website The Business of Fashion.
The British Museum’s trustees include Southall-born Meneesha Kellay, a “curator and cultural leader working across art, architecture, design and performance” and co-curator of the award-winning British Pavilion at the 2023 Venice Architecture Biennale; and Priyanka Wadhawan, director of insights and innovation at Amazon.
The ball’s committee includes Imran Amed; Eiesha Bharti Pasricha; Kumar Mangalam Birla; Dr Amin Jaffer; Sonam Kapoor; Suhair Khan; Sabyasachi Mukherjee; Rajiv Nathwani; Rajeeb Samdani; and Nadia Samdani.
Dinner consisted of “spiced lamb fillet, buttermilk masala, slow cooked dhal, pilau & dressed okra”; dessert was “Dulcey Crème Légère, passion fruit cremeux & chocolate Saint Honoré”; accompanied by “Minuty Blanc et Or (Vintage 2024) and Château Minuty Rouge et Or (Vintage 2023)”.
The dinner tables were distributed through such galleries as Enlightenment, Egyptian, Nereid and Nuveen.
Jansari said: “Do you know what was so nice? It was all served in a hand-painted tiffin.”
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