BRISTOL MP Thangam Debbonaire has slammed a senior judge for saying it's a "fundamental human right" for a man to have sex with his wife.
Justice Hayden, a senior High Court judge, made the comment during a hearing in a case to determine whether a man should be banned from having sex with his wife because she may no longer be able to give her consent.
"I cannot think of any more obviously fundamental human right than the right of a man to have sex with his wife – and the right of the State to monitor that," said the judge.
Reacting to the comment, Labour MP Debbonaire tweeted that "no man in the UK has such a legal right to insist on sex."
Debbonaire told the Bristol Post that these comments were troubling as “they are stated by a senior judge in the family division and this has an impact on public perceptions about rights in marriage.”
She added: “It is difficult enough for victims of rape and assault in marriage to take action against a husband without this being compounded by a judge giving out incorrect information about women’s rights not to have sex with their husband.
"Unfortunately, my experience from working with abusive and violent men is that this attitude is indeed widespread – one in four women will experience abuse from their male partner at some time in their adult lives and the men I worked with demonstrated these attitudes consistently.”
Diwali celebration tomorrow kicks off business with ticketed workshops and networking.
Model taps into growing demand for inclusive, heritage-focused experiences.
Platform targets not just south Asians seeking cultural connection, but everyone.
Creating cultural belonging
Priyanka Patel, curator of The Empowered Desi, a new events platform for south Asians seeking cultural connection, is here with a Diwali celebration on Saturday (18) at Fargo Village in Coventry. The venture was born from personal experience – Patel felt "isolated and neglected" growing up without many south Asian friends. Spotting a gap in the market, she's now building a business around creating inclusive spaces for south Asians regardless of religious or regional background.
Diwali-themed , Paint N Sip event in Coventry marks the venture's next partnership with local business Sugar and Spice, Patel is offering a ticketed experience featuring diya decorating workshops, Indian grazing boards with chai, and jewellery stations where guests can take home jhumkas and bangles. The Diwali format combines cultural celebration with networking opportunities, with south Asian attire preferred.
Empowerment through experience
I couldn't talk about the festivals we celebrate, the type of Indian food we have, and also the clothes we wear for special occasions," Patel told BBC."I felt that I couldn't express my individuality, which in turn affected my confidence and self-worth." She realised that lack of cultural belonging represented an untapped market.
The business model centres on experiential events that blend tradition with social connection. The first workshop held on September (20) focused on bento cake decorating, a trendy format paired with south Asian networking. Patel aims for attendees to "feel empowered and inspired."
With South Asian Heritage Month highlighting the importance of cultural spaces, The Empowered Desi positions itself at the intersection of community building and commercial viability. Patel's betting that others share her experience and are willing to pay for a sense of belonging.
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