AN ALL-YOU-NEED-TO-KNOW GUIDE TO HINDI CINEMA’S MOST POPULAR GENRE, FROM SONG AND DANCE TO THE STORYLINES
by ASJAD NAZIR
When it comes to Bollywood coverage, Eastern Eye has been a world leader, delivering everything from A-list interviews to historical features and compelling cinematic lists that have received global media coverage.
The most popular theme in Hindi cinema has of course been romance, which means there has been plenty of Bollywood love in the most established British Asian newspaper since its inception.
So, with that in mind and to celebrate the 1500th issue, Eastern Eye presents an all you need to know A to Z of Bollywood love and romance. So turn down the lights, get comfortable and read on.
A is for Adulation: The most popular romantic heroes haven’t just got lucky onscreen, but have also found the most love from adoring fans off-screen. That is perhaps why countless leading men have been launched into Bollywood in a big way with romances. The hero who received the most adulation after his breakthrough romance became a huge success was Rajesh Khanna. He experienced the kind of mania not seen in Bollywood, including female fans marrying his photo after seeing him in Aradhana.
B is for Bravery: The one thing most Bollywood love stories have in common is the protagonists needing to step up and show bravery in some way. Whether it is couples having the courage to stand up to their parents, covering up a broken heart, willing to die for the one they love or taking a courageous step like leaving all their wealth; being brave has been stamped on romances since the very beginning.
C is for Coupling up: Many lead stars have fallen in love with each other in real life after romancing one another on screen. This phenomenon can be traced right back to the silent era, which has also included already married stars hooking up while acting in love stories. What most of these romances have had in common is that they haven’t lasted.
D is for Dance: A major part of the wooing process in Bollywood romances is couples dancing together or in some instances, for each other. The dances have added a sex-factor to love stories, especially at a time when strict censor laws didn’t allow any bedroom scenes and been a metaphor for liberation. Dance has also given powerful romantic moments like Madhubala’s defiant Pyar Kiya Toh Darna Kya song in Mughal-e-Azam.
E is for Eloping: For the longest time, many onscreen couples who couldn’t be with each other would elope and start a new life together. But then everything changed with the blockbuster hit Dilwale Dulhania Le Jayenge, which redefined romance and put across the message of doing whatever it takes to get parental acceptance. The film struck a chord with young lovers and also helped to bridge the generational divide.
F is for Feuds: The story of star-crossed lovers has been a staple diet in Bollywood for decades and the main conflict has arisen from feuding families objecting to the union. This has been represented in various ways ranging from classic love legends to modern day families from different social classes or religions.
G is for Generational changes: Most things were permissible in the silent era, including kissing. But then strict censorship took hold and the Bollywood love story evolved from the innocence of the 1930s where couples looked at one another lovingly to modern romances filled with more explicit scenes. With each generation, filmmakers pushed the boundaries a little bit more and in the process added new dimensions to Bollywood love, which includes recent path-breaking release Ek Ladki Ko Dekha Toh Aisa Laga, which is the first commercial Hindi lesbian romance.
H is for History: Filmmakers have regularly gone back in time to unearth a treasure trove of romantic stories ranging from famous love legends to stories based on real incidents. Some of the finest historical romances include Mughal-e-Azam, Taj Mahal, Bajirao Mastani, Laila Majnu and Razia Sultan. Popular themes in historical romances include class divide, courtesans and war.
I is for Introduction: The beginning of any great Bollywood love story is how a couple is introduced to one another and the most popular way has been them randomly running into each other. Perhaps the most famous of these was Raj and Simran bumping into each other on a train bound for Europe in Dilwale Dulhania Le Jayange.
J is for Junglee: Rocking revolutionary Shammi Kapoor redefined romance in Bollywood by injecting western energy that was missing in everything from love songs to the exciting way he wooed his heroines. This not only helped to make the Hindi love story more global and cooler, but also, connected with a new generation of Indian audiences being influenced by a rock n roll-inspired west.
K is for Kuch Kuch Hota Hai: The iconic 1998 romance broke records globally when it released and set new relationship goals for couples around the world. The central themes of love being connected to friendship and having a second chance resonated strongly with audiences. The film also consolidated Shah Rukh Khan and Kajol’s position of the most loved onscreen romantic couple of the modern era.
L is for Lyrics: So many songs are about love and they are nothing without emotion-filled lyrics. They really took on that romantic edge when great poets like Sahir Ludhianvi and Shailendra were hired to write the lyrics. These poets helped lay the foundation for masterful Bollywood love songs. Other legendary lyricists who added love to lyrics include Anand Bakshi, Javed Akhtar, Majrooh Sultanpuri, Shakeel Badayuni and Gulzar.
M is for Mughal-e-Azam: The best Bollywood film ever made is arguably the greatest onscreen romance of all time. The timeless love story between Prince Salim and Anarkali smashed all box office records when it was released and continued to inspire subsequent generations, which includes a recent stage musical that has helped redefine theatre in India. Everything - from the romantic dialogues, story and performances to the superb songs and setting - was perfect in the K Asif’s masterpiece.
N is for Night: The night has played a major part in Bollywood love. Whether it has been couples getting close in the darkness or songs inspired by moonlight like Chaudhvin Ka Chand, Raat Ke Humsafar and Chand Chupa Badal Mein, the night is usually a time for romance in Bollywood.
O is for Onscreen couples: The most important elements of Bollywood are the characters in the story falling in love and some onscreen couples have so much chemistry that they have become forever associated with love. Perhaps the two most iconic romantic onscreen couples are Raj Kapoor and Nargis, and Shah Rukh Khan and Kajol.
P is for Past pain: The path of Bollywood love is never smooth and at some point, heartbreak will usually occur, which will result in the protagonist carrying around a past pain. Perhaps the most famous examples of this can be seen in the various Devdas movies and in Kabhi Kabhie, where the lead character never got over the pain of a lost love.
Q is for Qayamat Se Qayamat Tak: Although there were some memorable love stories in the 1970s and 1980s, romance had pretty much died in Bollywood and action movies dominated the industry. Then in 1988, Qayamat Se Qayamat Tak, starring newcomers Aamir Khan and Juhi Chawla, brought romance back into Bollywood in a big way. Such was the impact of the movie that romance would dominate for the decade that followed.
R is for Road trips: Finding love on road trips has been popular in Bollywood for decades, where a journey brings two strangers together. Perfect examples of road trip romances include Dil Hain Ke Manta Nahin, Jab We Met and Dilwale Dulhania Le Jayenge.
S is for Songs: A key aspect of all Bollywood love stories is the colourful love songs perfectly illustrating all aspects of romance, from heartbreak and loss to defiance and victory. Love songs have been so important that they have drawn audiences in even when the film hasn’t been very good. The songs remain alive long after the films are forgotten, which includes golden hits like Lag Ja Gale that are loved over 50 years later.
T is for Triangles: Bollywood has always loved a good old fashion love triangle. Although the most common has two individuals being in love with the same person, there have also been some great out-of-the-box triangles like Lamhe, where the hero is torn between the memory of an older dead woman he couldn’t win over and her identical looking daughter, who, years later, falls for him. Perhaps the most daring was Silsila, where what was going on between Amitabh Bachchan, Jaya Bachchan and Rekha was rumoured to be happening in real life.
U is for Unusual: Some of the best and most original love stories have been ones that would be considered unusual in Bollywood. Some of the finest include Dum Laga Ke Haisha, Barfi and recent release Ek Ladki Ko Dekha Toh Aisa Laga. There have also been many films where a protagonist has fallen in love with a ghost.
V is for Valentine’s Day: Bollywood may be built on romance, but it has hardly ever included Valentine’s Day into the storyline. The first movie to do it in a big way was the smash hit musical Dil To Pagal Hai.
W is for Weddings: Whether it has been happily ever after or the female protagonist getting married to the wrong man, weddings have played a big part in Bollywood love stories across the decade. Weddings have also been great backdrops to couples getting together with Hum Aapke Hain Kaun being the perfect example. Love songs from Bollywood have found their way into real life weddings all over the world.
X is for X-rated: Today, anything goes from kissing to relatively steaming scenes, but for decades, Bollywood retained the innocence in love stories without what would be considered X-rated antics between couples and subsequently retained their suitability for family audiences.
Y is for Yash Chopra: He may have delivered a variety of films across different decades, but the ace director was at his best making love stories. What made his romantic films particularly special was an amazing ability to think out of the box. The result was countless memorable romantic moments that connected with different generations in films that included Kabhi Kabhie, Silsila, Lamhe, Dil To Pagal Hai and Veer Zaara.
Z is for Zone: Last but not least, the one place you don’t want to be in a Bollywood love story is the dreaded friend zone. There have been many across the decades who have loved and ultimately lost because the object of their affection parked them in the friend zone.
In an industry long considered the domain of men and machines, Ritika Jatin Ahuja is rewriting the rules – at full throttle.
As the founder of Queen’s Drive Club, India’s first all-women supercar collective, Ahuja is on a mission to change how females are seen in the automotive world.
What began as a personal love for driving has blossomed into a nationwide movement, connecting women who share a passion for power, performance and the open road. She is also the chief operating officer of Big Boy Toyz, a leading pre-owned luxury car brand in India, founded by her husband Jatin Ahuja.
Having carved a bold path that merges business acumen with a powerful vision, Ahuja is proof that there is plenty of room for women – both behind the wheel of a Lamborghini and in leadership.
The inspiring motoring enthusiast spoke to Eastern Eye about female empowerment, the world of supercars, her groundbreaking club, and advice for women aiming to thrive in male-dominated fields.
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What made you want to launch an all-women supercar club?
When Jatin and his friends went for drives, they were always happy for me to join, but I wanted more women to share that experience. I started looking for female car enthusiasts, and Queen’s Drive Club was born. Today, we are India’s first and largest all-women supercar club.
Tell us about the club.
Queen’s Drive Club is about uplifting and empowering women. It breaks stereotypes around women and driving. We have built a community of women with shared interests and a desire to connect. With committed members, the club continues to grow.
What challenges did you face in establishing yourself in the supercar world?
One of the biggest challenges was entering a male-dominated industry where women were often overlooked. I overcame this by proving my capabilities and creating spaces for women to support each other. Queen’s Drive Club was born out of that need – a platform for women to express their passion for cars without judgement. Balancing a family business while creating my own identity was also difficult, but perseverance and focus helped me navigate it.
How has the perception of women in the automotive space changed since you began?
I see more women taking the wheel and participating confidently. It has been a long-time dream of mine to launch an initiative through the club to help women learn driving and eventually find employment as drivers. I have a friend who once hesitated to drive, thinking it would only mean chauffeuring the family. I helped her see the freedom driving offers – now, she is a huge car enthusiast.
How else is your platform empowering women?
Queen’s Drive Club has become a motivational space. People see us enjoying our drives and want to join. When women support each other, there’s no stopping us. We come from different walks of life, and our shared experiences create a beautiful synergy. The club has inspired many women to learn how to drive, creating a ripple effect.
As a mother of two, how do you manage a work–family balance?
I am very organised. I do not let my schedule overwhelm me and make sure to maintain a healthy balance between work and personal life. Even when work gets hectic, I always spend time with my children. Fortunately, Jatin is a very hands-on father, so we have a rhythm – one of us is always available. Weekends are strictly reserved for family.
What advice would you give to young women pursuing unconventional or challenging careers?
Dreams are important, but nothing happens until you take that first step. My advice to young women is to strive for independence – especially financial independence. Do not wait for someone to drive you or pay your way. Take control and create your own path.
What advice would you give women trying to succeed in male-dominated industries?
Stand your ground and communicate your boundaries. Be excellent at what you do – your work will speak for itself. There is nothing women cannot achieve. So many women have led by example, showing that nothing is impossible.
Which supercar best represents your personality?
I would say the Range Rover SVR – it is the perfect “mum car” with the right mix of power, performance, space and comfort. It is safe and dependable, which reflects how I like to manage both family and work. But when I am not with the kids, I enjoy the thrill of the Lamborghini Urus – bold, edgy and high-performing, just like my ambitious side.
Do you have a life mantra?
My mother, despite being incredibly studious and talented, did not have the freedom that many women enjoy today. Yet, she stood by me like a rock. Her support taught me to be fearless. My guiding mantra has always been: Everything can be achieved if you are willing to try. That mindset has helped me overcome every challenge.
You have ambitious goals for Big Boy Toyz and Queen’s Drive Club – what inspires you?
I am inspired by anyone who dares to dream and takes the steps to pursue it – whether that is my husband, my mother or everyday women breaking norms. But above all, I believe in self-inspiration. I am proud of what I have accomplished, and knowing I have made a difference keeps me moving forward.
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‘Nimbus’, is raising concerns among health experts
A new highly transmissible Covid variant, known as ‘Nimbus’, is raising concerns among health experts as cases rise sharply in parts of Asia and begin to appear in the UK. Official data shows that the strain, which has been labelled N.B.1.8.1, could drive a summer wave of infections due to its increased contagiousness and potential to evade immunity from earlier vaccinations or infections.
Cases detected in the UK
According to the UK Health Security Agency (UKHSA), 13 confirmed cases of the variant have already been recorded in England, and 25 British samples have been submitted to international databases since the end of March. However, experts say these figures likely underestimate the true spread, given the current limited Covid testing regime compared to the height of the pandemic.
UKHSA data up to 1 June reveals that 6.1 per cent of those tested for Covid were positive—the highest weekly figure for 2025. This marks a 7 per cent increase from the previous week and a 97 per cent rise compared to early March.
Rapid international spread
Nimbus, which is a descendant of the Omicron family of variants, has been linked to a spike in cases in China, Singapore, and Hong Kong. Globally, it now accounts for around 10.7 per cent of Covid infections, up from just 2.5 per cent a month earlier, according to the World Health Organisation (WHO).
The WHO has designated the variant as a ‘variant under monitoring’, which means it is being tracked for its potential impact but is not currently classified as a variant of concern.
Scientists warn of summer spike
British scientists are now warning that the new strain could fuel a rise in cases over the summer months, particularly as people become more socially active during the warmer weather.
Professor Lawrence Young, a virologist at Warwick University, said: “We are very likely to see a spike of infections over the next couple of months, possibly by later this month or in July. But it’s difficult to predict the level of this infection wave.”
He explained that population immunity from previous vaccinations or infections is likely waning, and unlike flu, Covid continues to spread in hot and humid weather. Laboratory studies also suggest that Nimbus is more efficient at infecting human cells and may have enhanced abilities to evade the immune system.
No evidence of increased severity
Despite its contagiousness, there is currently no indication that Nimbus causes more severe illness or higher mortality rates than earlier strains. However, experts caution that vulnerable groups—such as the elderly, people in care homes, and those with weakened immune systems—remain at risk of serious illness.
Data from the Office for National Statistics indicates that Covid contributed to just over 300 deaths in England during May 2025.
Symptoms and vaccine protection
The symptoms of the Nimbus variant appear to be consistent with those of previous Covid strains. These include fatigue, fever, sore throat and muscle aches.
There is currently no suggestion that the variant causes different or more severe symptoms. Moreover, scientists believe that existing Covid vaccines, reformulated to tackle Omicron and its descendants, should still offer protection against Nimbus.
UKHSA data shows that people who received a Covid booster last spring were 45 per cent less likely to require hospital treatment compared to those who remained unvaccinated.
Who is eligible for the vaccine?
In the UK, free Covid vaccinations are currently being offered to:
Adults over the age of 75
Residents and staff in care homes
Individuals with weakened immune systems
The UKHSA has urged all eligible people to take up the vaccine offer to help protect themselves and others from severe illness, particularly with the rising presence of the Nimbus strain.
Officials closely monitoring situation
Dr Gayatri Amirthalingam, deputy director at UKHSA, confirmed that the agency is closely tracking the spread of the N.B.1.8.1 variant both domestically and internationally.
“UKHSA is monitoring all available data relating to SARS-CoV-2 variants in the UK and abroad, and we continue to publish our findings in our regular Flu and Covid-19 surveillance reports,” she said.
“NB.1.8.1 has been detected in small numbers in the UK to date, but international data suggests that it is growing as a proportion of all Covid-19 cases.”
As the summer approaches, experts are reminding the public that even though the pandemic is no longer dominating daily life, Covid continues to evolve. The emergence of Nimbus underscores the need for vigilance, particularly among those at higher risk.
TV chef and author Nadiya Hussain has revealed that the BBC has decided not to commission another series of her cookery programme, marking what she described as a "huge turning point" in her career.
Hussain, who rose to national fame after winning The Great British Bake Off in 2015, shared the news via a five-minute video posted on Instagram. The decision ends a decade-long run of various food shows she has fronted for the broadcaster.
No renewal for Nadiya's cookery series
Speaking to her followers, Hussain said: "The BBC have decided that they didn’t want to commission a show. And for me, that was a huge turning point because it’s something I’ve done for the past 10 years."
The chef, author and presenter has hosted a number of popular series for the BBC, including Nadiya Bakes, Nadiya's Fast Flavours, Nadiya’s Simple Spices, Nadiya's Everyday Baking and Cook Once, Eat Twice. In addition to cookery shows, she also fronted the documentary Nadiya: Anxiety and Me, which explored her personal experiences with mental health.
A BBC spokesperson confirmed the decision, saying: “After several wonderful series we have made the difficult decision not to commission another cookery show with Nadiya Hussain at the moment.”
However, the broadcaster added that Hussain remains “a much-valued part of the BBC family” and they are looking forward to “working together on future projects”.
A moment of career change
In her video, Hussain reflected on the impact of the decision, stating it came at a time when she was already reassessing the direction of her professional life.
“I was already on this steady trajectory of change and I was thinking about where I wanted my career to go. When the BBC decided they didn’t want to commission the show anymore, it really did kind of solidify everything for me,” she said. “It made me dig my heels in and think, ‘OK, I know where I want to be’.”
Hussain is one of the most high-profile personalities to emerge from The Great British Bake Off, and one of the few contestants to go on to host solo TV series on a major network.
Industry challenges and identity
Elsewhere in the video, Hussain touched on her broader experiences in the food and media industries, speaking candidly about some of the difficulties she has faced as a Muslim woman.
“It’s really difficult,” she said. “As a Muslim woman, I work in an industry that doesn’t always support people like me or recognise my talent or full potential.”
She added, “There’s a lot of gaslighting, making me feel like what’s actually happening isn’t happening.”
Despite these challenges, she said she is now moving in a “positive direction” and is focused on projects that allow her to be her “most authentic self”. Hussain explained that she wants to work with people who value her voice and believe in her abilities.
Taking a stand on values
In her message, Hussain also spoke about the ongoing war in Gaza and how it has shaped her decisions around brand partnerships.
“I’m way more mindful of who I work with, brands I work with – especially if they are brands that support the genocide,” she said. “I’ve made sure I’m actively working with brands that align with me.”
She added that these career adjustments have given her a new sense of freedom: “I’m excited about taking back a bit of ownership of what I do, how I do it and who I work with. That’s given me a freedom I haven’t had in the last 10 years.”
Her comments come at a time when many public figures and organisations are under scrutiny for their positions, or perceived positions, on the Israel-Gaza conflict. Israel has rejected allegations of genocide, which are currently being examined by the International Court of Justice.
Despite the setback, Hussain appears optimistic about what lies ahead, as she focuses on aligning her work with her personal values and long-term goals.
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Ranganathan discussed experiencing suicidal thoughts in the past and the steps he has taken to improve his mental health
Comedian and presenter Romesh Ranganathan has opened up about his long-term mental health challenges, describing how he has found effective ways to manage his wellbeing and now feels he is in “one of the best places I’ve ever been in my life”.
Speaking on BBC Radio 4’s Desert Island Discs, Ranganathan discussed experiencing suicidal thoughts in the past and the steps he has taken to improve his mental health. He also reflected on his Sri Lankan heritage, his upbringing, and the difficulties his family faced during his youth.
Managing mental health with daily routines
Ranganathan said he uses running, reading and breathing exercises to help maintain his mental wellbeing. These habits have become an important part of his routine.
“One of the things I’ve noticed when it comes to mental health is you do stuff that works… and then for some reason you just stop doing it,” he said. “You go, ‘Oh, I’ve done that every day for a week, I’m really feeling better, shall I just stop? Yeah!’ And then a few weeks later, wonder why I feel much worse.”
He described recognising when his mental health dips as “half the battle”, explaining that he is now better equipped to respond to difficult periods. “Sometimes I just go through a dark period and I know that I’ve got to do something about it,” he said.
Sharing mental health experiences responsibly
The 47-year-old broadcaster also reflected on the challenges of discussing mental health publicly, particularly when such conversations might affect others.
“You’ve got to be careful because it’s triggering [for other people],” he told presenter Lauren Laverne. “The way that I try and tackle that is to talk about it… I’m trying to destigmatise it to make the conversation normal.”
Mental health should be something people feel able to talk about openlyBBC Radio 4
However, Ranganathan acknowledged the fine line involved in public disclosures. “You do also have to be mindful of the fact that people may have been affected by that,” he said. “You don’t always get it right, but I think the rewards outweigh the risks.”
He explained that, like physical illness, mental health should be something people feel able to talk about openly. But he also emphasised the importance of being sensitive to those who may have personal experiences with suicide or depression.
Personal losses and long-term challenges
Ranganathan revealed that his struggles with mental health date back to his teenage years. He recalled particularly difficult moments during his A-levels, when his father was imprisoned for fraud, and the wider financial difficulties the family faced at the time.
“I’ve been through in my life a number of periods of suicide ideation,” he said. Despite these challenges, he said he currently feels mentally strong and positive. “As I speak now, this is running close to one of the best places I’ve ever been in my life mentally.”
His father died in 2011, but Ranganathan continues to reflect on his parents' lives and the lasting impact they’ve had on him.
Honouring his mother’s strength
During the interview, Ranganathan spoke warmly about his mother, Shanthi, and described her as “one of my heroes”. He shared how his parents moved to the UK from Sri Lanka in 1970, eight years before he was born.
While his father embraced British culture, socialising and working, Ranganathan said his mother had a very different experience. “That’s a 19-year-old girl who had kids in a foreign country,” he said. “My dad was going off to work… my mum is at home and going to the shops, but… there’s a strong argument he should’ve implemented more boundaries than he did.”
He admitted that one of his biggest regrets is “not having enough empathy or understanding” of his mother’s situation when he was growing up.
Family challenges and early life
Ranganathan recalled a difficult period when he was 12, and his father lost his job and struggled financially. “He was trying to make money in his sort of Sri Lankan Del Boy way, and it wasn’t working out,” he said. “He couldn’t keep up the mortgage repayments on their house.”
His father was later arrested and sentenced to two years in prison for fraud, an event that deeply affected Ranganathan during his teenage years.
Despite these hardships, Ranganathan eventually found success in comedy in the early 2010s and has since become a household name in the UK. He now hosts a weekend show on BBC Radio 2 and has fronted numerous popular television programmes.
Music and reflections
As part of his Desert Island Discs appearance, Ranganathan selected songs from artists including Kanye West, Eminem, and Huey Lewis and the News. His musical choices reflected different stages of his life and emotional journey.
The interview provided a rare and honest glimpse into the comedian’s personal experiences and mental health journey, offering encouragement to others who may be facing similar struggles.
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Priya Mulji with participants at a Thailand retreat
I turned 43 recently, and it was the best birthday of my life. Special for so many reasons. For the first time since my twenties, I spent my birthday abroad. (In case you were wondering – Phuket, Thailand.)
Last year, I impulsively booked myself onto my friend Urvashi’s mind, body and soul expansion experience. Since then, life has taken some unexpected turns – including being made redundant from my day job – so this trip could not have come at a better time.
Before leaving, I was apprehensive. I had never been to East Asia. Would I like it? Would I get on with the other women? Should I really be going on a two-week trip without a job? What vaccinations would I need? Would the street food give me Delhi belly?
I need not have worried. Within the first day, all my fears melted away. The group of women on the trip were inspiring – each there for her own reasons – and across the week, I connected with them in unique and beautiful ways.
We ranged in age from 37 to 53. Some of us were single, others married with grown-up children. Some were high-flying execs, others unemployed.
But there was no sense of hierarchy – no “I’m better than you.” Just acceptance.
It was a trip of firsts. I got up at 5.30am on my birthday to do a four-kilometre mountain hike to see the Big Buddha. I got in a kayak and floated in the middle of the ocean, despite being a terrible swimmer. I took a Thai cooking class and finally learned how to make some of my favourite dishes.
But the biggest lesson from this impactful trip was this: it is so important to find people who bring good energy, who listen without judgment. Surround yourself with those who offer wisdom and support, not force their opinions on you. Who remind you that you are respected. That you are loved.
For anyone feeling lost, unloved, or unsure of how to navigate life, know that your tribe might be out there, waiting to meet you in the most unexpected of places. I found a new sisterhood in just one week. So take a chance. Step out of your comfort zone. Do something you never imagined doing.
I will leave you with the words of Usha, who was on the trip: “We are all devis in our own way.” I dedicate this column to Jaymini, Leena, Nina, Usha, Iram and Rinku – for helping me in ways they may never fully understand.
And to my darling Urvashi, thank you for bringing us all together. You created magic. You gave me the best birthday gift I could ever have asked for.