6 Tips for your first time booking an escort
Eastern Eye Staff
Meeting an escort or a sex worker for the first time can be a massive experience. Most people get so nervous or afraid of doing something embarrassing or “not good enough” that they cancel the meetup then and there!
But hiring an escort should never feel daunting. This article is there to guide you to get over your nervousness and make this experience an amazing one!
Here are 5 tips for the first time you book or meet an escort.
- A good booking request
While you’re booking an escort, it is important to keep in mind that you’re not ordering pizza online. This is a businessperson and a human being you’re talking to. So you’ll have to be respectful and avoid sending flashy, explicit messages.
If you send them a text that’s filled with spelling errors, or messy wordings, the escort will simply see you as someone wasting their time. So remember to clearly mention the date, time, and venue of the meeting, introduce yourself politely and ask for what you want in a clean, respectful manner.
Never send texts like “hi sexy” or “wht r ur rates”, since they are filled with grammatical errors and make a terrible first impression. Remember that the escort you’re contacting has to be aware of the police posing as potential clients, so they’ll talk to you in a very professional manner. Therefore, you’ll also have to do the same.
- Avoid sending follow-up messages
So you’ve prepared a good text message and sent it to the agency. But you’ve not received any reply yet. This is the hard part; sometimes escort agencies might take up to 2-3 days to get back to you. But no matter how nerve-wracking this wait might be, try to not send follow-up messages too soon.
Keep in mind that the escort you’re trying to contact might be busy with other work or clients, and if you keep sending texts will make the situation sloppy.
Instead, focus on some other work until you get a reply. Or if it takes too many days, contact the next person on your list.
- Contact authentic agencies
There are many places in the world where escort agencies are banned and considered illegal. If you belong to such a place, be sure to contact an authority that is genuine. Avoid clickbait advertisements showing escorts and instead look up “target escorts” online.
Sometimes, legal authorities might try to tap into underground websites to interrogate both the agency and the clients, so be extra careful.
- Respect boundaries
While most escorts do engage in kinky foreplay or sex, there might be some things they are uncomfortable performing. Talk clearly to them regarding what you would want them to do, and ask them if they’re comfortable in doing so.
Also, be sure to specify whether you would just want a romantic date or jump straight into bed. After all, communication is the key! Some key things to keep in mind are:
- If your escort seems uncomfortable talking about a particular topic, apologize and change it.
- Never compare your escort with other escorts you might have seen online or heard of.
- If your escort says she needs some privacy, say after sex while washing up, give it to them.
Be yourself, but be the best version of yourself. While most escorts do not like chatting about things other than the appointment, if you see that your escort enjoys doing so, simply have a chat and enjoy!
It’s very important to be punctual in all walks of life. Whether you’re going for an office meeting or on a date, it’s always best to be on time.
Similarly, when you are supposed to meet with your escort, you should always be on time or if possible, a little early. Being punctual not only gives a good impression of yourself but also gives you more time to talk to each other.
After all, you wouldn’t want to be left waiting for an hour, would you? So be prepared beforehand, dress well, and leave early to avoid traffic jams.
Remember to pay the escort at the beginning of the appointment, as soon as you meet them (if you haven’t already paid online, that is). If you show up without any cash in hand, your sex worker might simply vanish and you’ll be left all alone.
If you’re meeting in a public place, or at a hotel, give the money to them discreetly, such as in an envelope or gift card.
Over to you…
Nowadays, there is a growing demand for sexual services. For example, in Cambodia, 59-80% of men have paid for sex at least once. In Thailand, it’s 75% men, and in Italy, the percentage is 16.7-45%. Therefore, if you feel nervous or apprehensive about contacting a sex worker, don’t be.
These services and agencies are meant for you to enjoy and indulge in. But always remember to respect the other person’s boundaries, and be courteous. Simply follow these five tips, and you’re good to go!