Elderly man in India's Kolkata installs wife's silicone statue at home after she died in pandemic
Tapas Sandilya, a 65-year-old former government employee, said her late wife had once expressed the desire of having a statue of herself if she died before him.
An elderly man in Kolkata in the eastern Indian state of West Bengal has paid a tribute to his wife, who passed away during the deadly second wave of the Covid-19 pandemic, by installing her life-size silicone statue at their home.
The 65-year-old Tapas Sandilya, who worked as a government employee, placed the statue weighing 30 kilograms (kg) on a sofa at the favourite spot of Indrani, his late wife, in the house.
A silk saree, which Indrani wore on the occasion of the wedding reception of the couple's son, has been neatly draped on the statue. Sandilya has also adorned it with his late wife's favourite gold jewellery. He reportedly spent Rs 2.5 lakh (£2,522) to set up the statue.
Speaking to India's Times of India daily, Sandilya said he got the idea of installing the statue from the ISKCON Temple in Mayapur in Bengal and that her wife had expressed before him the desire of having a similar statue of herself if she died before her husband.
“We visited the ISKCON temple in Mayapur a decade ago and could not stop admiring the life-size statue of the order's founder, AC Bhaktivedanta Swami. It was then Indrani had told me of her desire for a similar statue (of hers) if she happened to pass away before me," Sandilya was quoted as saying.
Indrani died on May 4, 2021, and her husband started working towards fulfilling her wish.
He approached Subimal Das, who is an expert in making silicone replicas for museums.
Das said it was "absolutely necessary" for Indrani's statue to have a realistic facial expression and hence it took six months to complete it. He also said while it is easier to maintain silicone structures compared to wax statues, the latter can be more realistic to view.
Sandilya also faced resistance from other members of the family while executing his dream project but eventually they gave in.
However, his wife's statue has not been able to mitigate Sandilya's pain of losing the person. "I was in isolation at home when Indrani was taken to a hospital in south Kolkata. I can never forget that. But the 30-kg installation gives the feeling that she is always with me," he told the daily, adding, "I will live with that."
Indian High Commissioner Vikram Doraiswami highlighted inclusiveness and sustainability.
Leicester hosted scaled-back celebrations without fireworks after a safety review.
Cities across England marked the festival with community events.
THE ROYAL Family and UK prime minister Keir Starmer shared Diwali greetings on Monday, as the High Commission of India in London highlighted inclusiveness and sustainability as key messages of the Festival of Lights.
“Wishing a very happy Diwali to everyone celebrating the Festival of Lights in the UK and around the world,” reads a message from Buckingham Palace, shared across all its social media platforms.
Starmer also took to social media to wish “Hindus, Jains and Sikhs across Britain a joyful and peaceful Diwali and Bandi Chhor Divas”. The prime minister, who attended the Gaza peace summit in Egypt during the Diwali festivities at 10 Downing Street last week, reflected on his visit to Mumbai earlier this month in his post.
“Earlier this month, I lit a diya in Mumbai as a symbol of devotion, joy, and renewed bonds. As we celebrate this Festival of Lights, let’s keep building a Britain where everyone can look ahead with hope,” he said.
Opposition Conservative Party Leader Kemi Badenoch described the festival as a “celebration of light over darkness, hope over despair, and the power of family, community and faith”.
“Wishing a very Happy Diwali to all those celebrating the festival of lights in the UK, India, and around the world. May this Diwali bring blessings, peace, and prosperity to everyone,” said Priti Patel, the shadow foreign secretary.
Indian High Commissioner to the UK, Vikram Doraiswami, in a video message, called Deepavali one of the central elements of India’s festive calendar.
“It is celebrated across all communities as an opportunity to bring together families and friends and celebrate the joys of the changing season, and the start of the cool season,” said Doraiswami.
“It is one of our most beloved festivals, not least because of the lights and traditional diyas that are lit up, but also for the opportunity to spend time with friends and family. Diwali these days is seen as an opportunity for an inclusive festival, a sustainable festival,” he said.
“Sustainability not just purely in the environmental sense with the use of renewables in our lights and displays, but also in terms of ensuring that you make it sustainable by bringing together all communities amongst whom you live,” he added.
“That is particularly applicable here in the United Kingdom as we celebrate the start of what is a longer festive season that continues right through to the end of the year,” he said.
Many of the annual Diwali festivities in the UK, including the Mayor of London’s Diwali on the Square, took place earlier this month.
In Leicester, known for its large-scale Diwali celebrations, this year’s event was scaled back with no fireworks display following a local council safety audit. The city’s Diwali Day celebrations were centred around a Wheel of Light — a 110-foot-high Ferris wheel on the Golden Mile at Belgrave Road — which was closed to traffic and lit up with thousands of colourful lights.
“We know that this year’s celebrations will feel different, but our priority must be the safety of the public,” said Councillor Vi Dempster, Leicester’s assistant city mayor for culture.
“We are absolutely determined that Diwali continues to be part of the city’s festive calendar. We will be working with partners and the local community to explore options for how the city builds on its proud tradition of bringing our communities together to celebrate the Festival of Light,” she said.
Meanwhile, Basingstoke and Reading in southern England hosted outdoor Diwali celebrations organised by Kala the Arts over the weekend, attracting hundreds of people.
The events featured theatrical processions with illuminated puppets, dhol music, classical dance performances, and lantern installations as part of the free-to-attend festival, now in its fifth year.
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